Valentine’s Day is tomorrow, February 14. While couples plan romantic dinners and exchange gifts, the real Valentine’s Day history tells a far more complex story.
Behind the roses and chocolate lies a mix of religion, Roman rituals and clever marketing. Here are seven facts many people miss about February 14.
1. Saint Valentine was not one clear person
Most people speak about Saint Valentine as if he were a single historical figure. In reality, early church records point to more than one Christian martyr named Valentine.
One account describes a priest in third-century Rome who secretly married couples despite a ban allegedly imposed by Claudius II. Another suggests a Valentine who helped imprisoned Christians and was later jailed himself.
Because of these conflicting stories, historians struggle to link the date to one definite individual.
2. “From your Valentine” may be legend
The famous phrase “from your Valentine” is often linked to a prison letter written before execution.
It is a powerful story. However, historians note there is no firm documentation proving the note existed. The phrase survives largely through tradition rather than verified historical evidence.
3. The day may be linked to Lupercalia
Some scholars connect February 14 to Lupercalia, an ancient Roman fertility festival held in mid-February.
Unlike modern Valentine’s Day, Lupercalia involved ritual sacrifices and fertility rites. It was not about candlelit dinners or romantic gifts. This link partly explains the darker undertones in Valentine’s Day history.
4. It became romantic centuries later
Even after the Church added Saint Valentine’s feast day to its calendar, the celebration was not immediately about romance.
The love connection grew in medieval Europe. Writers such as Geoffrey Chaucer popularised the idea of February as a season of romantic pairing. In England and France, people believed birds began mating around mid-February, reinforcing the love theme.
5. Early valentines were handwritten letters
Before printed greeting cards, lovers exchanged handwritten notes and poems.
Personal letters formed the foundation of Valentine’s Day traditions. Even today, heartfelt messages often carry more meaning than expensive presents.
6. Red roses have ancient symbolism
Red roses symbolise love and desire due to ancient myths linking the flower to Aphrodite.
Centuries later, the Victorian era strengthened the tradition of giving flowers as romantic signals. Today, red roses dominate February 14 flower sales worldwide.
7. Chocolate boxes became popular through Cadbury
Heart-shaped chocolate boxes did not emerge by accident. Cadbury is widely credited with popularising decorative heart-shaped boxes in the 19th century.
This marketing strategy helped transform Valentine’s Day into a major retail season. It also cemented chocolate as a staple romantic gift.
Why Valentine’s Day matters today
Valentine’s Day is now one of the biggest retail periods for florists and confectionery brands. Red rose prices often rise sharply in the days leading up to February 14 as demand surges.
While the modern version focuses on romance, the true Valentine’s Day history reveals a blend of martyrdom, pagan rituals and commercial influence.
Understanding that history adds depth to a holiday many people see as purely about love.
